This dildo is a great option for advanced users. The first thing I noticed was the impressive weight of box. The dildo has impressive weight, maintains it's shape well, is still flexible enough for versatile play, and the suction cup base holds extremely well. I've had my Kevin Dean dildo attached to the shower wall for over two days at a time and it's never released from the wall on it's own, and takes a lot of force and the right angle to dislodge purposely, keeping a good suction during even the most wild and depraved rides. Most women can accommodate the dildo vaginally after a good dose of foreplay and proper lubrication, use extra artificial lube if the woman doesn't lubricate well, and the dildo will provide women with maximum fulfillment. As with many dildos of this material, some may want to use a condom just to smooth over the hard synthetic ridges, especially if used anally. It also makes clean up a snap. This dildo is also a very fun, but challenging, anal option. I graduated to the Dean from a 9"x1.5" dildo, and spent about four hours playing with the head of the dildo and increasing my gape with my fingers before I was able to accommodate the Dean, but boy is it worth it! Creating fulfillment that will send you into anal spasms in minutes, the dean still offers months of continued training and play for most users who will be in utter delight as they work to take a little bit more each time. The Dean is versatile, challenging, and durable, and will leave you and your loved ones with gapes that are the envy of all anal lovers!